I know alot of people who love to do their shopping online =)
so here's a little article on it.
well,the meeting up part that is =)

http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/printfriendly/0,4139,193975,00.html

bascially,its about the buyer handing money over to the seller while both are standing at opposite sides of the mrt gates.
over the edge you might ask?
i agree too.
But if any of you are stuck in a similar situation.
just say this.
the seller is my friend who i borrowed money from; he/she is just returning it to me
and the [insert item bought over blogshop] is something i lend him/her before; he/she is simply returning to me.
lets see how can they say anything about it =)

no,we are not dealing,we are returning stuffs that were borrowed over the net,so as to say. xD
of course,anyone can op. for postage and let singpost get all the money~ *winks.